Having trouble picking up women? So do a lot of guys! But, all you need to do is follow a few simple methods to help you get the woman of your dreams! Want to start picking up women, but have no idea how to do so? You need some simple tips to help you pick up women.
Many guys get lots of bad advice about picking up women from their friends and family who know even LESS about how to get a girl than they do. Even so-called “Dating experts” that you see on TV usually don’t know what they’re talking about because they have to cater to the feminist media! (And truth be told, the mainstream media looks down on any tactic that could help guys get laid!)
Bottom line: Picking up women is not a politically-correct topic!
If you want to get started right away, you’re going to need some practical advice that really works! Luckily, you’ve found this article! So let’s get to it…
Let me first tell you what you DON’T need to pick up women.
You DON’T need to look like a “male model.”
This is a huge mistake that almost all men make. Little do they realize that close to 85% of women place more importance on how a man makes them FEEL as opposed to how he actually LOOKS.
So if you don’t think you’re a good looking guy, fear not! You’re not out of the game yet.
Second, you DON’T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!
Quite a few of the best Pickup Artists I’ve ever known spend $30 or less when they go out on dates, and more than one of them doesn’t even own a car! (And the ones that do don’t drive anything special!)
Most women don’t care how much money you make or spend on them – IF they actually like you! And a big part of picking up women is to get them to like you, isn’t that right?
Finally, you DON’T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.
Look – No matter what obstacle you think you have when it comes to getting a girl to like you, having a great personality trumps them all!
If you know the proper way to interact with women, nothing else matters.
Unless you’re already on the verge of becoming a master pick up artist, you’re probably not going to have phenomenal success right away using these tips and tactics. But if you apply these and other tactics over a period of time and learn from your experiences, you’ll find your success with women will skyrocket!
Go out as often as you’re able to and talk to as many women as you can, especially when you’re starting out. You don’t have to go to high-pressure environments like nightclubs where it’s difficult to pick up women, but there is no better “practice ground” in my opinion, simply because there are SO MANY women out there to pick up.
But regardless, make a point of going out to pick up women a certain number of times a week – after all, practice makes perfect!
When you’re first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies. But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow. Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.
And the more experience you have, the more likely it is you’ll be able to MASTER the art of picking up women!
The most important thing to remember about going out to pick up women is to gain experience!
You’re going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this valuable experience with women.
(Remember I didn’t say you had to be “good looking.” I said you need to “look good.” There’s a difference here. You may not have any say about what you look like, but you have complete control over your appearance – what you wear, how your hair looks, how you smell, etc.)
Dress for success: Wear clothing that fits you, that’s color-coordinated and looks good on you. If you have fashion-conscious friends who can help you pick out a wardrobe (particularly if they’re women), now’s the time to recruit them.
Dressing nicely to meet women is not mandatory – you don’t NEED to do it. However, it will make the process of meeting women much easier (women do like men who take pride in their appearance). Also, the nicer your dress, the more confident you’ll feel!
Always be on the lookout for pickup opportunities. Attractive women are everywhere, and it’s always a bad idea to let an opportunity to meet one of them slip you by!
Remember – ever good pickup follows a very simple structure. This means there’s a series of steps to picking up women you can actually repeat time and time again and get the same results.
The structure is:
- Find the girl.
- Approach and meet her.
- Talk and Gain Rapport.
- Build Attraction.
These four simple steps is all you need! You’ll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you’ll easily be able to build attraction with them too.
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